Jill Breslau
Acknowledging Steven Keeva and Transforming Practices
PART 1:
The Illicit Relationship of Lawyers and Emotion
When I mentioned the title of this article in an e-mail to another lawyer, she responded, “Hmmm. I missed that one in law school—and unwittingly took the practicum on ‘Just the Facts, Ma’am.”
Well, yes, me too.
The law is about Reason, not Emotion. If we had wanted to learn about emotion, we would have gone to graduate school to study psychology. Instead the goal was to learn to “think like a lawyer”. During my years in law school, I wondered if I had, and if I had learned it well enough. When I did well in law school, I felt as if I had joined a very elite club, and too bad for all the people out there who failed to understand that logic and reason were the right way to go about decision-making. I took great pleasure in the intellectual dance that is legal analysis. More recently, I could still relate to the judge who told me, with considerable satisfaction, that he thinks in outline form.
Jill Breslau: Valuing Emotions in Law
Jill Breslau, a lawyer and therapist, discusses her professional journey, finding a better way to do family law than the adversarial process.
Part 1: Lawyers Expanding as Human Beings
Part 2: Congruency with our Higher Values & Valuing Emotion in the Law
Lawyers Getting Famous on YouTube?
My heart was warmed by this email from Jill Breslau:
"I had a funny experience recently and I forgot to tell you. One of my new litigation policies (since unfortunately I am not able to decline to do litigation) is to meet opposing counsel as soon as possible, when he or she is receptive, and build or discover common ground. So I invited an attorney to get together for coffee, tea, whatever, and she responded with an invitation to lunch with her and an associate of her firm. I arrived in the restaurant first and was waiting at the table when she and her associate arrived. The first thing they said was, "How great to meet you! Your hair is lighter than it looked on youtube!"



